An Invitation to Discerning
Trinity Church has entered into a season of discerning as we seek God's will for our future. The Session wants to invite every member and friend of Trinity to join us in this season. The first opportunity to join the discerning happened on the weekend of February 20-22 when we had small group dinners. The Session now invites you to join them in the next phase of our joint discerning. Each month for the next four months, the Session will provide specific and concrete questions that each of you can think about and pray about for the month. On the last Sunday of the month, we will have a lunch after worship to share what we are learning and discerning. If you cannot attend the lunch, you are encouraged to write down your responses and drop them off at church, mail them to the church, or send them in via email. Your input will help the Session as it leads the congregation into the future.
On June 14, the Session held a congregational meeting to report on the first six months we have spent discerning our future. This discernment process has involved after-worship lunches, dinners in members homes, prayer, new initiatives, conversation and study. The Session has not come up with a final plan, but our direction is becoming clearer and the Session is hopeful about the future that God is calling us to.
What we have learned
How we are responding / How we can respond
A word from Dan: I appreciate the Session and the congregation's call to a higher level of leadership. I know we have the necessary building blocks in place for a new era of growth and vitality at Trinity. I also know that all of us will need to personally go through a period spiritual growth as we prepare for this time. I want to make a promise and issue an invitation as we enter into this new time. The promise: I will be more direct about where I think we need to go and how I think we need to get there. I am sometimes vague about expressing my thoughts, so I will be more precise and more direct. The invitation: I need for every member of the congregation to be direct with me with questions, hopes, and concerns. I know that sometimes members think that I am too busy or not interested in feedback. Let me say directly: I am deeply interested in what members think about our direction and the decisions we are making. It is never a burden to receive input or even to have debates about it. Please trust that the Holy Spirit will hold us together in our agreements as well as our disagreements.
When the church and its leadership entered into a time of intentional discerning, the congregation was promised a time for checking in on the process, the progress, the challenges and the realizations. Plan to stay after worship on Sunday, June 14th to share a potluck lunch and engage in a crucial conversation as we work together to move forward into God's plan for Trinity.
Mark your calendars: We will gather for our second potluck lunch and conversation about the April discerning questions after worship. For lunch, Last names A-G: please bring dessert or bread., Last names H-P: a salad or side to share, Last names Q-Z: main dish. No need to RSVP, but if you have questions or can help set up and/or clean up, please contact Elders Dave Nelson or Sharon Christopher: If you are unable to attend, you can write your thoughts on your insert during this month and place them in the basket in the Narthex or email the church.
At Trinity, we have entered a time of discerning God's will for our future together. During this time, we encourage members and friends of Trinity to pray, discuss, and listen carefully to the still small voice that speaks in so many ways. In March, we asked members to pray about and reflect on the following questions:
On March 29th, members and friends of our Trinity family gathered for a potluck lunch and small group discussions of these questions. Being an elder, I attended this lunch and the follow-up discussion we had at our Session meeting the week after.
During the lunch on Sunday March 29, I felt a sense of deep fellowship with the others at my table. A couple of us had been at Trinity for a while, but the others were newer - some have only been attending for a few months. As we discussed what we loved about Trinity and what does not appeal to us, we spoke honestly and learned about each others' spiritual lives. The desire for more fellowship opportunities was something we all agreed with as we enjoyed our time together.
A few days later, the Session met. During our discussion, we noticed some distinct patterns in the responses from the dinner. Dan typed up every single response that was given on Sunday as well as those e-mailed in, dividing them roughly by topic. The comments about what we loved centered most heavily on worship & music and fellowship, but we also expressed a strong love of our outreach, spiritual growth, and commitment to diversity. For us as a Session this made sense. We know that worship & music, fellowship, outreach, spiritual growth, and diversity are aspects that Trinity members and friends care deeply about and love about our church. Comments about what does not appeal to certain individuals but does appeal to others focused on worship & music with some comments about fellowship and spiritual growth. This also made sense to us, since most of the "opposing" viewpoints people at Trinity have center around worship & music. Worship, music and fellowship are largely a matter of preference and taste, so it is expected that these areas will show the most disagreement. However, when we looked at the comments for what God loves, we noticed a different emphasis. A commitment to outreach, diversity, and spiritual growth received the overwhelming majority of responses with some unified comments about the importance of worshipping God together and having times of strong fellowship.
We as a Session found this to be something we should really reflect on together as a church. How are we using our resources of time and money? Are we being faithful stewards of what God has given us? How can we best focus our efforts on what we feel God is calling us to do? If we know God loves our commitment to outreach, diversity, and spiritual growth, how can we - individually, and as a church - live this out?
The 49th chapter of Isaiah was written at a time of crisis for God's people. They were living in exile in Babylon, away from everything that was comfortable and familiar. The future seemed bleak and they didn't know how best to move forward. Through the prophet Isaiah, God spoke words of hope to the people. Below is a short portion of Isaiah's prophecy spoken in that time of crisis.
Isaiah 49:5-6
And now the LORD says, who formed me in the womb to be his servant, to bring Jacob back to him, and that Israel might be gathered to him, for I am honored in the sight of the LORD, and my God has become my strength-he says, "It is too light a thing that you should be my servant to raise up the tribes of Jacob and to restore the survivors of Israel; I will give you as a light to the nations, that my salvation may reach to the end of the earth."
1. This passage recalls that God is the source of our strength and identity. In what ways have you seen God's faithfulness in the life of Trinity?
2. This passage is surprising because it doesn't imagine a future that is a restoration of the past; rather it imagines a future that is more profound than what has already happened. What greater ministry, what greater witness do you hear God calling Trinity to at this time?
Guidance for Prayer
Some Christians have a natural gift for praying-prayer comes easily and naturally. But for many of us, prayer is struggle. Each month we will offer some guidance on different ways to pray. This month, you can find guidance for a variety of styles of prayer in the Lenten Spirituality Center in God's Creation.
Lectio Divina
Lectio Divina is the ancient practice of "holy reading." Lectio Divina is a way of hearing God through the reading and praying of scripture. Lectio Divina usually begins with a short passage (you can use the one above if you like). You will read the passage three times. The first time read the whole passage through (you can do this silently or aloud) so you hear the whole passage. Pause. The second time you read the passage, listen for the word or phrase that "shimmers" or calls you to pay attention to it. Pause. Read the passage a third time paying close attention to the passage that "shimmered." When you are done with your third reading, pray or breath the word or phrase that presented itself to you. Allow that word or phrase to speak to you, to guide your thinking or your meditation. After a time of prayer, thank God for God's word to you.
I love it when we as a church...
Outreach (11)
Diversity (4)
Worship & Music (22)
Fellowship (22)
Spiritual Growth (9)
Even though it does not appeal to me, I know there are members of Trinity who love it when we...
Outreach (1)
Diversity (0)
Worship & Music (22)
Fellowship (5)
Spiritual Growth (4)
Building (2)
God loves it when we as a church...
Outreach (15)
Diversity (13)
Music & Worship (5)
Fellowship (4)
Spiritual Growth (13)
Trinity Church continues in a season of discerning as we seek God's will for our future. Building on our February small group dinners and March potluck discussion, we continue this congregational conversation with a new round of questions. We will have a church potluck lunch on April 26 to discuss our insights into these questions.
The 49th chapter of Isaiah was written at a time of crisis for God's people. They were living in exile in Babylon, away from everything that was comfortable and familiar. The future seemed bleak and they didn't know how best to move forward. Through the prophet Isaiah, God spoke words of hope to the people (Isaiah 49:5-6):
And now the LORD says, who formed me in the womb to be his servant, to bring Jacob back to him, and that Israel might be gathered to him, for I am honored in the sight of the LORD, and my God has become my strength - he says, "It is too light a thing that you should be my servant to raise up the tribes of Jacob and to restore the survivors of Israel; I will give you as a light to the nations, that my salvation may reach to the end of the earth."
1. This passage recalls that God is the source of our strength and identity. In what ways have you seen God's faithfulness in the life of Trinity?
2. This passage is surprising because it doesn't imagine a future that is a restoration of the past; rather it imagines a future that is more profound than what has already happened. What greater ministry, what greater witness do you hear God calling Trinity to at this time?
If you cannot attend the lunch, you are encouraged to write down your responses and drop them off at church, mail them, or send them via email. Your input will help the Session as it leads the congregation into the future. Your bulletin inserts will also continue to offer guidance for different types of prayer to help with your discerning.
Each month during our season of discerning, the Session will provide specific and concrete questions that each of you can think about and pray about for the month. On the last Sunday of the month, we will have a lunch after worship to share what we are learning and discerning. If you cannot attend the lunch, you are encouraged to write down your responses and drop them off at church, mail them to the church, or send them in via email. Your input will help the Session as it leads the congregation into the future.
Mark your calendars for a lunch & time of group discerning after worship on Sunday, April 26. Your bulletin insert asks 3 discerning questions to pray on during the month of March as we move forward together as a church. We will gather for lunch and conversation about these questions on Sunday, March 29th after worship. This will be a potluck meal. We will repeat this process monthly until our congregational discerning update meeting on June 14th.
For the first month, the meal assignments are:
Some Christians have a natural gift for praying-prayer comes easily and naturally. But for many of us, prayer is struggle. Each month we will offer some guidance on different ways to pray. This month, you can find guidance for a variety of styles of prayer in the Lenten Spirituality Center in God's Creation.
Breath Prayer
Get into a comfortable position (one suggestion: sit in a straight backed prayer,
place your feet flat on the ground, and place your hands palms up on your thighs).
Take three breaths-in through you nose and out through your mouth. As you breathe
in, picture that your breath carries the Holy Spirit into your being. As you breathe
out, let your breath carry your worries and anxieties away from you. After three
breaths, sit calmly and ask God to be present to you. If extraneous thoughts pop
into your head ("Did I turn off the lights in my closet?" "I must remember to pick
up some milk", etc.), gently breathe them out so your mind and spirit can be clear
and focused. In the silence allow God to speak to you. What is God saying? What
images is God placing in your mind?
Discerning is a process that gives us a clear picture of the future that God is leading us to. We discern by looking back (not only at our own history, but in scripture as well) and seeing how God has been faithful to God's promises. We also discern by noticing how God is active in our midst right now. As spring and new growth is in the air, lots of new things are blooming at Trinity these days.
Stewardship Team
In response to the financial challenge that we as a church are experiencing,
a new Stewardship Team has been formed. The members of this team responded to an
invitation at the Annual Meeting to help the church develop a more intentional and
wide-reaching stewardship emphasis. This team will help Trinity develop a year round
stewardship emphasis. They will have regular articles in the Trinity News, work
with Dan to have occasional testimonies in worship that will be paired with sermons,
oversee the annual pledge campaign and will make sure that all of our special offerings
are coordinated. Brian Muegge is chairing this team. Other members of the team are
Jenn Clodi, Evan Reid, and Larry Pontious. If you would like to join the team, please
speak with Brian.
Rummage Sale
This actually isn't new as Trinity used to have rummage sales in the past. But
we haven't had a rummage sale in the last seven or eight years. This year's rummage
sale is being spearheaded by Elder Cheryl Evans. Cheryl was motivated to coordinate
this effort as a way to raise money to keep our paid section leaders in the choir.
The rummage sale will be held at Trinity on Saturday, April 18. We need people to
donate items, to help set-up and price items, and work at the sale on April 18.
Please speak with Cheryl if you can help us raise money to help maintain a strong
and vital music ministry.
Joint Ministry Conversations with First Presbyterian Church
Trinity Presbyterian Church and First Presbyterian Church have, for nearly a
century, sat less than a mile away from each other. In that time the two congregations
have engaged in little joint ministry. As both congregations are now discerning
their futures, we have entered into a discussion with First Church exploring the
possibility of joint ministry. Joint ministry could range from doing mission projects
together to sharing staff to merging the two congregations into one. At this point,
we don't know where this conversation will lead (more discerning is needed!), but
it is exciting to explore how God is calling both churches to be a vital and effective
witness to the Gospel of Jesus Christ in University City.
Over the past number of weeks, the Session at Trinity has been talking about our present financial situation and how we will be addressing it in the weeks and months to come. What follows is a Question and Answer session with myself to address some of the issues that are before us.
Q: How big is the deficit for 2009?
A: The Session voted to begin the year with a $74,000 deficit. This amount assumed that we would receive $300,000 in pledges. Because additional pledges have come in, as of Feb. 18, our deficit now stands at $67,000. I anticipate it will continue to shrink as more pledges come in. Every Trinity member can help reduce that deficit through additional giving.
Q: How long can Trinity run such deficits?
A: Not long. We began this year with church savings a little higher than $420,000. These savings can help us weather difficult times, but every time we spend from our savings, the money is gone. Additionally, our goal should be to preserve as much of our savings as possible so they can be used to help expand our ministry and grow the church.
Q: Are you worried about this financial time?
A: I would say that I am concerned, but not worried. I am concerned because we must act wisely to make sure that we get Trinity on a sustainable path. This will call forth wisdom and flexibility from all of us. And we know we don't have endless time to address our financial challenges. But I am not worried because God is always faithful. God has richly blessed this congregation first with faithful, talented, and caring people. Even if we had no cash reserves, I wouldn't worry because God always provides what we need to share the good news of Jesus Christ with the world. But we do have substantial cash reserves; this is due to the faithfulness of our forbearers. The generosity of previous generations can help us create a ministry that will endure for generations to come.
Q: So how will we decide what we should do to arrive at this sustainable future? How will we know what to cut, what to keep, and what to add? That seems like an almost impossible task.
A: It is an almost impossible task-but it's not impossible. We will do what the church has done for thousands of years; we will enter into a time of discernment.
Q: You use that term "discernment" a lot. What exactly is discernment?
A: Discernment is a discipline that enables us to begin to understand God's will for us, for our church and for the world. Discernment is really a way of listening as God speaks. We discern in a variety of ways: through prayer, which is not only speaking our needs to God, but listening for God as God speaks to us. We discern as we listen to the hopes and dreams of our fellow members and as we listen to the hurts and needs of the world. We discern as we read and study scripture together, as we hear of God's love for creation and humanity. So discerning is a matter of listening; it is also a matter of sharing - of sharing what we are hearing and trusting that the Holy Spirit will bring us to a place of understanding. We will make choices based on that understanding.
Q: Where does discernment happen?
A: Discernment happens every time we make an important decision in our own lives. It happens at Trinity every time we gather as God's people - in worship, in education, in fellowship, in service. The Session will provide a variety of venues in the coming weeks and months so that all members of the congregation can listen together and share what the Holy Spirit is revealing to them.
Q: This sounds a bit fuzzy - like there is no real plan. Is that the case?
A: Discernment is a very powerful way for the church to receive guidance; but we enter into the process without a guaranteed outcome. It is my experience that if we are faithful to the discipline of discernment, then God will be faithful in revealing God's will to us with a clarity sufficient to act.
Q: What else is going on that calls for discerning?
A: There are two important conversations that call forth our most faithful discernment. One is a new conversation that has started with First Presbyterian Church, just a half a mile to the west of Trinity on Delmar. First Pres is going through some similar challenges to Trinity, and the two Sessions have started a conversation exploring joint ministry. In the weeks and months to come, we will be discerning whether or not God is calling these two congregation to a common ministry. These conversations could lead to a serious discussion about a merger between the two congregations (a process that would result in one new congregation with leadership and location to be determined); it could lead to sharing mission and ministry in our community; or we may discern that God is not calling us to a specific relationship with First Pres. We can only know what to do through discernment.
Q: You said there were two conversations - what is the second?
A: The second conversation has to do with replacing the elevator. Our current elevator is obsolete - we anticipate that in the next couple of years it will either break down and not be able to be fixed, or the state will not let us use it because it will be out of code compliance. If Trinity is going to be true to its calling to be a welcoming and inclusive church, it is essential to have an elevator in our building. But this begs the question: given the high ongoing cost of maintaining the building, the enormous carbon footprint of the building, and the high cost of a new elevator, is God calling us to stay in this building or do we need to explore other issues?
Q: And what do you think we should we do?
A: I don't know the answer to that. What I do know is that these questions can't be solved through simple analysis. Yes, we need the best information we can gather, and the Session and its commissions are hard at work doing that, but in the end, the path we must take will only be known through discernment.
Q: Do you really think that will work?
A: Absolutely. It's why the church has not only survived but thrived through depressions and recessions, through persecutions and dark days. God is speaking to us - we only need to listen.
In coming weeks, you will be given opportunities for further conversation about the issues raised at the annual meeting and in today's insert. Stay tuned and be a part of our moving forward together.