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Wawokiye (pronounced wah-whoa'- key-yea) is a Lakota word that loosely translates into "helping the people stand."
This year the Senior High Mission team consisted of Dylan Devine, Paul Devine, Rhonda Dunbar, Hanna Evans, Wyndham Ferris, Blair Klostermeier, and Zach Roman. We spent the week at Re-Member, an outreach to the Oglala Lakota on the Pine Ridge Reservation in Pine Ridge, South Dakota. Re-Member's mission is to heal the wounds of the Lakota, to "Re-Member," by putting back together that which is broken, and build hope for the future. We thank everyone who made this incredible experience possible! The following reflections were written at the end of each day.
DAY 1 - Wounded Knee
Today we went to the Massacre/Battle of Wounded Knee. Many innocent people died at this site. We heard the story of what took place and then we had communion. After communion, we picked up trash around the mass grave and the rest of the cemetery. The graves looked different from what we were used to. Instead of flowers left by the visitors, there were offerings of toys, cigarettes, and bread. It was explained to us that the Lakotas bring and leave anything that is of importance to them. At first we thought of these items as trash, but we realized what seemed to us as trash was actually offerings and items of importance to others. It was a very spiritual place; however, we couldn't help but feel disheartened and guilty for the actions of our ancestors.
Community Dinner
Tonight was Re-Member's first community dinner of the season. The community dinner is a weekly event on Re-Member's grounds. The purpose of the dinners is to provide a good dinner to the Lakota guests, allow us (the volunteers) to buy crafts, and most importantly to bring the communities together. Before eating we played softball and tag with the Lakota children and partook in the flag raising ceremony. All the volunteers, staff members, and Lakota guests stood around the medicine circle which surrounds the flag pole. The flag was raised while an Indian Elder sang and a volunteer walked around with burning sage. Then a spirit plate was placed at the base of the flag pole. We were told that the spirit plate was the way to recognize those who have passed away be setting aside a little of all the food we were about to eat. Kelly Looking Horse, a Re-Member staff member and Lakota elder, told us if a spirit is bothering you to give it some food. After dinner we talked to our Lakota visitors, looked at the crafts that were for sale, and played with the children. Two Lakota boys decided to follow Zach around. They wrestled with him and used their "spears" of grass to attack him. We enjoyed spending time with the children.
DAY 2 - The seventy volunteers were split into twelve work crews. Three crews worked together each day.
Hanna volunteered to stay back at Re-Member and work in the kitchen.
I washed dishes, swept, cooked lunch, cooked dinner, and helped prepare for some of the upcoming meals. I loved spending the day by myself. The entire place was quiet.
Blair, Wyndham, and Zach spent their Wawokiye day at a family's home.
Today we played with two kids, painted a room, and cleaned up the family's kitchen. We think that we made a positive impact on their house. The family was welcoming and they at lunch with us. Even though we would have liked to stay longer and do more, we feel we made a difference.
Dylan, Paul, and Rhonda spent their Wawokiye day cleaning out an old trailer.
Today was a very difficult day for us. We walked onto a property that looked uninhabitable. We were shown to the trailer. It was filled to the top with garbage. There is no garbage pick up on the reservation so the family was using their old trailer their "dump". We do not know how to describe what we saw and witnessed. Everything that a typical family throws away was in the trailer including dirty diapers. We felt ourselves start to judge the family based on their trash. Tonight we find ourselves in conflict between our sense of charity and self-righteousness. We are concerned that the new trailer that arrives next week through Re-Member will return to the same state. We continue to ask ourselves if we have a right to put limits on our charity.
DAY 3 - Blair, Wyndham, and Zach spent the day placing beds.
Today it was gratifying to go into these homes and see how happy the children were to get a new bed, sheets, blanket, pillow, and book. It was eye-opening to see their living situations. The houses were small, smelled, had many children, and trash was everywhere. Despite this, we were welcomed into their homes. Our last family invited 10 of us to dinner. Our dinner consisted of fried bread, spam, and Kool-Aid. The dinner was sparse, but filling due to their generosity. We are struggling with the question whether or not what we are doing is enough?
Dylan, Hanna, Paul, and Rhonda spent the day at Re-Member.
Today we spent the morning in the workshop at Re-Member sanding and staining bunk bed components. The staining and sanding are completed outside the building in the sanding stations. At times it felt like a never ending job, but it felt good when you finally completed sanding a piece of wood that you know will eventually become a child's bed. After lunch it was raining. We were frustrated that we wouldn't be able to get more done, but the extra time during the day allowed us to spend time getting to know people we hadn't had a chance to before this day. Rhonda and Paul had the opportunity to get to know Susie Looking Horse (A Lakota who runs the kitchen at Re-Member) on a more personal level. Dylan and Hanna had a chance to spend time with the youth from the other groups. Overall, it was not the day we had expected but it was the first time we all felt fully part of this community.
DAY 4 - Tour of Pine Ridge Reservation
Today we all climbed onto the bus for our tour of the reservation. We first drove around and saw the government housing and saw the housing the doctors lived in. The doctor's homes were an extreme contrast from the average Lakota's home. Then we went to the Red Cloud Indian School. This school is a Catholic school. Our tour guide talked about their high graduation rate and continuing education percentages. She also told us about the graduates that are coming back and starting businesses. This gave us hope because we feel it could improve the living conditions if there were more job opportunities. The tuition is held to a minimum; therefore they must raise 10.4 million dollars a year to keep the school running. We then went across the street to the Heritage Museum's juried art show. It was amazing to see the Lakota art. We learned quite a bit from our tour guides about traditional and contemporary art.
Our next stop was dinner at Bette's Kitchen. This is a restaurant out of Bette's home. The scene we saw was amazing as we ate our buffalo burgers, chocolate cake, and fried bread.
After lunch we stopped at Singing Horse Trading Post. We talked to a Lakota man there that broke horses for a living and is training his son to take over the business. After Rosie's we went to the Oglala Lakota College. They had an amazing museum that contained pictures from the time period of Wounded Knee. It was a great experience.
Craft Night
Tonight we made dream catchers with Kelly and Susie Looking Horse and beaded bracelets with John and Lawanda Her Many Horses. We felt it was very spiritual and relaxing once we understood the process. After finishing crafts Blair, Dylan, Wyndham, and Zach danced with the rest of the volunteers while Kelly played drums and sang and Susie explained what to do. Kelly explained how important a hand shake was and that in the Lakota culture a "weaker" hand shake shows respect. At the end of the dancing we all shook hands and in our heads we were thinking about how were shaking hands what it meant.
DAY 5 - Wyndham's opportunity for a special tour with Kelly Looking Horse.
The highlight of today was getting to meet the great-, great-, grandson of Red Cloud. He talked to us and we were able to ask him questions. It was amazing to be able to sit there and listen to his wisdom. After listening to the great-, great-, grandson of Red Cloud we went to a retirement center and met a code talker from World War II.
Blair and Zach spent the day in the workshop at Re-Member.
All morning we sanded the bed components. In the afternoon we started to put the beds together. It was cool to finally be able to put the beds together after sanding all day. We felt like we accomplished something.
Dylan, Paul, and Rhonda spent the day placing beds.
We had a good day being able to set up beds in people's homes. At one home, the room was so small that only a couple of people could work at a time. Dylan felt it was surreal to sit in a Lakota man's home watching "Little House on the Prairie" with him while the group was putting the beds together.
Evening
Tonight we had pizza and sundaes. It was awesome to end the week watching the sun go down with all our new friends. It was an amazing day.
ROSES AND THORNS
Every night we gathered with the other groups in our housing building for "roses and thorns." Roses were the good things that had happened and the thorns were the lows or our worries. Here are some of our roses for the week:
Dylan Devine - Watching "Little House on the Prairie" with the Lakota man while placing beds.
Paul Devine - The entire week was emotionally and spiritually challenging and this experience pushed me.
Rhonda Dunbar - On Monday I was able to talk to Jerome and Tereasa about their lives and views on what is happening on the reservations. This conversation gave me insight into what they are struggling with everyday and gave me an opportunity to know them on a more personal level.
Hanna Evans - I was sick for a majority of the week, but Marcy and Courtney (two of the Re-Member interns) helped take care of me when I didn't feel good.
Wyndham Ferris - Meeting Red Cloud's great-, great-grandson.
Blair Klostermeier - Interacting with the people I met at Re-Member and the Lakotas.
Zach Roman - Eating fried bread with a Lakota family after placing beds in their home.