- Larry Pontius
No, I'm not talking about the NIKE slogan, I'm referring to tithing. Before I get started, I must admit to having an evangelical background. As I've learned, about one half of us here at Trinity did not grow up Presbyterian, and that certainly fits very well with our core strength of being inclusive.
Although there are many things that cause great divisions between the different faiths, I believe there are many more beliefs that we commonly share. In the secular world, we would consider this idea of sharing to be called something like "best practices." So today, I'm writing on my deep feelings about one of those practices - tithing.
It's not surprising that tithing was a topic I heard about much more as a Southern Baptist than as a Presbyterian. In a faith that reads the Bible literally, it is more natural (not easy, mind you) to adopt a command that pretty clearly lays out that every person should give 10% of their income. For Elaine and me, this decision came to the forefront in the early 90s. This was less about money, and more about who was in charge of our lives. Was this really our money to begin with? Was I puffed up enough to believe that everything I had was due to my human efforts? Am I then saying that those that are suffering are experiencing that pain because they just aren't working hard enough? After prayer and consideration, we started to give accordingly. I love the idea of first fruits and paying God first. I guess we're lucky in a way to have a job that only pays once a month, as we don't have to think about this more often.
Tithing can be looked at from both a faith and intellectual perspective. In the faith perspective, you could say it was my duty as a Christian to tithe. Tithing gets a bad name from the often controversial TV evangelists who promise that the practice of tithing will enrich your finances ten-fold. I don't think that was part of God's plan at all. While I have never kept score, I do feel like God has me in his financial grasp. I've been blessed with employment, security and comfort and have not worried about the future to the degree that is prevalent in society. When I hear programs on NPR that state that five billion people on earth earn less than a dollar a day, I am deeply humbled. Yet it makes my decision to buy used cars instead of new cars seem pretty trivial. And I'm not saying you need to quit buying new cars. This is just one of the ways that I've adjusted.
From an intellectual perspective, it is easy to see the mathematics and justice in this system. "Equal sacrifice / unequal gifts" is the term one of my old pastors would use. Everyone's on the hook, much like the proponents of a flat tax. I remember a UPS driver named Boston Oliver. Boston started driving for UPS relatively late in life and had learned many lessons along the way. Whenever Boston saw a young driver start working at UPS, he would make it a point to talk with that person, saying that now that he or she was going to be making good money; it is more important than ever to learn to live within one's means.
Isn't that a key to happiness, really? Isn't it our nature to always long for more? What better way to curb our insatiable desire than with a healthy dose of self-discipline and self-denial, two things that always get a bad rap in our culture. In his own way, Boston was trying to help protect people from themselves. That sounds more like God's plan to me.
As a former Southern Baptist deacon, I can tell you that not everyone tithed. But I will tell you that the tithing of many obedient seniors, the majority being women, all on fixed incomes, is responsible for keeping many a church-door open during even the most troubling economic times.
And that leads me back to our wonderful church home. I am disheartened when I hear that we are not making our budget, cutting back in areas that foster growth, and witnessing a once-substantial endowment shrink. It's no secret that many of us, if not most of us, are being affected by these tough economic times. But if we are honest with ourselves, we have all also been blessed beyond measure. For me, that's where the logic of tithing makes so much sense. It's not about how much you give, but in the obedience of giving itself. One does not need to dive immediately into tithing, but can work up to it gradually over time.
It's also a matter of prayer. God loves the cheerful giver, and we must remember that a gift is something for which we expect nothing in return. Everything we have has been given to us by God; we are merely returning a portion of His gift back to Him in gratitude for our vast abundance.
I look forward to stewardship journey we are on, and I feel blessed to be part of Trinity. Praise be to God.